You are so beautiful without all these...

Make up,eyeliner,lip stick...all cosmetics that promise us perfection...And most of us actually believe that they can offer us something...But is it actually true??My opinion is that makeup hides the real you...

Sometimes it might seem that we totally need it in order to cover a spot or something but honestly,we are teenagers and spots are normal...everybody has them and no one is going to make fun of us because we have some...Other people have them too and they don't do anything to hide them,so why should we??

Most of all,when we put a lot of make up then we actually hide our real face...And we might like that "new face" that they offer us but think about it...It's not you...It's just someone who is trying to wear a mask in order to look like someone else...And most of the times that someone else isn't as we'd like it to be...

And there are some girls who think that without make up they are never going to find a boyfriend...Totally wrong...Most of boys like girls without make up or with a very light one...And sometimes they don't even notice that you are wearing any...And most of all,if they decided to create a relationship with you just because you had a nice maked up face then they don't deserve to be with you...

Remember...you are so beautiful without all these..and even if you don't feel that way,wear your britest smile and you'll see that hapiness and self-confidence are better than any expensive make up..:)

The way to childhood....

Do you ever spent time thinking about your childhood??Just thinking about the way you used to be when you were five or six years old??Well,it's a bit difficult because there has been some time since then and we can't remember everything but there are some things,some details for example that we can always remember even if we don't admit it...At least I do that...

Well,I can remember that when I was about five I was thinking that i was adopted...It sounds silly but honestly I did believe that somehow and I even prepared myself for the ay that my parents would come and announce me that..Of course that day never came but it's just an idea that I used to have....So I believe that most of you had these "weird" ideas about yourselves....

The good thing is that when you are a child everything seems easy...Most of the children when they are girls they want to have a job as a singer or an actress or a teacher and when they are boys they usually want to work as footballers or doctors....And it's funny if you think about it because almost every child wants to be famous....I wanted to be a vet when I was a child...now I've given up the idea...:P

Another thing that I have spotted is that children can't tell the difference between "I love" and "I like"...So if you go  and ask a child "Which is the boy-girl that you like most?" they will propably answer "I love Tom" or Alice or something like that..And it's cute because they think that they are in love or that they have a relationship with someone and they express it just by holding their hands or write little sweet notes...Oh,and another thing..they think that they will always be together...:)

I like children...most of them are inocent and sweet..or at least that's what they used to be....Sometimes I think that I'd like to live a childhood again because you don't have problems and everything is simple and the only thing you think about is when I'll go out and play with my friends...But the I think that most of the children wish to grow up so...I guess I have to compromise with growing upbut it's important to remember that  there is a child inside of us and cherish our childhood...the time when we didn't use to care about what the others think about us and we just wanted to enjoy our lives...:)

Happiness is....

Happiness is...watching the trees getting green leaves again,listening to the swallows caming back at spring,smelling the camomiles and the poppies....

Happiness is...watching the sea getting from calm to angry,listening to the sounds of the waves as they reach the coast,smelling the salt that fills the atmosphere...

Happiness is...watching the night sky full of stars,trying to find a shooting-star in order to make a wish,listening nothing but your breath and some random sounds that come from far away,smelling the sweet smell of the flowers that are placed near your balcony...

Happiness is...sitting outside of your house,holding the hand of someone who is really important for you,listening to the sounds of the night that combine with his/her voice,smelling his/her perfume...


Happiness is...listening to the music you like,feeling it getting inside your body and dressing your favorite moments with its melodies...

Happiness is...drinking a cup of tea or coffee in a cold morning,eating a big piece of cake,smelling nothing but its sweet smell...

Happiness is...a kiss in the rain,a hug in front of a big crowd,those three words that come out of his/her mouth like a whisper and make you feel like you're the only person in the world...

Happiness is...a warm blanket while you are sitting next to the fire place,holding a cup of hot chocolate,talking to a friend...

"Happiness is...when what you think,what you say and what you do are in harmony"-Mohandas Gandhi

Happiness is...a lot of things that can't always be written down...Happiness is...something different for each person...but in the end it's what we all want and wish for....:)

Bittersweet symphony...

As the “Verve” says,life is indeed a bittersweet symphony…or at least that’s what it seems to be to most of us…

Well,we have all dealt both with good and bad times..I don’t think that anyone has never felt pain,but that’s what life is all about right??No one can be happy all the time,even if we sometimes wished that would happen…but imagine a word where nothing wrong could happen,where everything could be exactly the way we want it to be and everyone is fully satisfied with his/her life…Well,it’s a fairytale..and fairytales differ from reality…

So,we have to learn and deal with the situation that occur…It’s so much better when we don’t know what to expect,when our future is uncertain and we don’t know if everything is going to be as we’ve planned…That’s why life is amazing…Of course there aree some bumpy rides but they make life beautiful and meaningfull…

Of course no one likes having probles…Especially when they concern someone’s health…but these times-the hardest ones- are also part of our life and of who we are…The situations that we have to get through make us stronger and ready to deal with whatever may come…And if we think about it,everyone deals with different situations that may be harder than ours but we only see our side…We shouldn’t be so shelfish…We should start thinking that even though we deal with a difficult situation and have health problems,there are also others who are in a harder situation than we are…

“When something wrong goes on,try to move on no matter how hard it may seem”…that’s what my grandmother always says…And I think she is right…When times are hard,it won’t last forever,even if we think that…And when times are really good then we have to enjoy and apreciate that because it won’t last forever either…Enjoy life!!Get out of your shelter and even though it may seem hard at first then everything is going to get better…A little bird didn’t learn how to fly all by itself…it needed practise and help …So open your wings and fly away..

Learn to take life seriously…Challenges wait on your way and we should be ready to deal with them succesfully or not…There will always be people around to support and consult you…Don’t be afraid!!In this amazing trip,you are not by yourselves…there are so many people who will always be there for you in order to make your life beautiful…And even though some will definitely try to knock you down,always remember to prove them that they are wrong and stand up…And don’t forget..life comes easier when you SMILE!!:)

That green little creature...

I don't know if you all have felt it-I certainly have-but I do believe that most of us have felt jealous more than once in his life...It's that feeling when you feel like you are in the middle of the hurricane and everything around you is collapsing...And the best part is that you are the only one who can control it..

Jealousy....one of the worst feelings...the one that can break down a friendship,a relationship,everything...It makes you full of suspicions that may not rely on something that is done...But you don't mind because in your head everything makes sense...

The fact is that jealousy is like a dirty little creature...that can start "eating" every feeling you have for someone..it makes you insecure...you feel threatened and start acting like everything is against you...Like you are going to loose something really important from another person...And that little green creature knows how to grow...it knows how to make you frustrated and smiles when it has managed to fill you with doubts..

It is hard to get it out...when that feeling starts you begin to think that everything can turn out differently...A message,a call,a meeting,anything may born suspicions...Suspicions you can't erase...you can't delete...And even when the other one tries to make you understand that nothing is actually wrong,you say ok at first and then after a little while,here comes that little voice inside your head that tries to make your life harder..And you believe it..


That's the worst part...And after a while,if you think about what's happened and how ridiculous were your ideas,you'll start realising that everything went wrong just because you started listening to your bad side...Being jealous may be sweet sometimes as it can show the other that you actually care about him/her but...it's better to tell to that little creature to shut up and enjoy what you are living..because nothing lasts forever and jealousy is the worst way to end something....So goodbye little voice..:)

Dreams wanted...

"As I was struggling to conquer everything,I lost my dreams..."
I've already written about dreams,but when I read this "quote" I started thinking about what this man ment when he said that thing to a teenager and I started to realise that he was very wise...He wanted to explain that sometimes,we struggle to obtain something we really want and we let other things that may be more important to us...

Dreams...a simple word that means so much to some of us....Dreaming doesn't mean escaping from reality...It means trying to get beyond that...And That's what we should actually do...Because even though we have to deal with reality sometimes it's so much easier to use your feelings in order to deal with a situation...And dreams are our feelings...The feelings that make our sky beautiful...

So sometimes we decide to sacrifice some of our dreams in order to deal with reality...And we have to admit it that we can't always make our dreams come true no matter how hard we might try...But they will always be there at the back side of our mind,to remind us what we used to think when we were children and we thought that our life would be a fairytale...But even though we might decide to sacrifice some of them,we shouldn't forget about it...and we shouldn;t stop believing in it...because at one point we may have the opportunity to go back,fix everything and try to work it out...

So what happens when we loose them??I once read that If we don't have our dreams we have nothing...And I must say that I support that...Because even if we don't want or believe it those dreams and those plans we make about our future reveal some aspects of ourselves...And if someones looses all of his dreams,he/she also looses his/her goals and him/her self...It's possible that he/she will end up alone,not knowing what he wants or needs...

So,the thing that the old man said is actually true...We have to live life...So get out there,scream,dance,sing,do everything you want to...And don't forget to dream,dream a lot,set goals and try to achieve..Because a person is happy when he can dream dreams and is ready to pay the price in order to make them come true...So what are you waiting for??Close your eyes and you will see that everything you ever wanted is right there,in front of you...:)

Wonderlands...

Wonderland…a word that means something different to each person…some hear the word and instantly think about a fairytale..”Alice in Wonderland”…

As I was sitting in the balcony last night,just me and my thoughts I started thinking of thhis fairytale..and I begun to wonder what was the purpose of the writer when he was holding his pen,trying to create his own characters in a piece of paper…So I ended up thinking that the main purpose was to show us that each one has his own Wonderland…Alice had her own wonderland….it was full of mystery and adventure…and she discoverred this magical place just by falling to sleep…So,what if our wonderland appears only when we don’t expect it?

We might think that wonderland is like our own paradise but I don’t think that this is the exact term for it…I believe that Wonderland is a place where everything turns into magic,where nothing can harm us because we feel protected..we are not going to fall,get hurt or broken because there is a place where we are the creators…We are responsible for it’s magical “construction” and so we know everything about it..

Even if we ignore it’s excistance,at some point where we will need a shelter or a place to stay calm it will always be there for us…Yes,I think I found it…Wonderland is our indian summer in the middle of a cold winder…a place where nothing can go wrong…a place where everything is made by us and works for us…a personal space where everyone else can’t get in..a place where even though we are alone,we don’t feel lonely because we know that we need to be alone sometimes…

A magical place…that’s what it is….A place where we can be who we want us to be…a place where every teardrop becomes a butterfly..ready to fly away and set us free from every guilt or pain that we feel…a place where we can find ourself and most important a place where we can find that small child that had been hiding inside us and was afraid to get out…

Yes,this is wonderland….so the next time you’ll feel dissapointed,hurt,broken or lost don’t forget to follow the small voice inside your head that says “Slow down,you’ve done enough.Just relax and everything is going to be alright” and you’ll definitely end up walking your own wonderland…

Follow that rabbit and get back on your small blue cloud that’s been waiting for you…and don’t forget,if you manage to get on the cloud then no one will be able to take you down ..:)